When the wife earns more…

Money Matters!!!
The love of money is indeed the root of all evil. Sadly, I have seen how some marriages have come apart as soon as the #wife starts earning more money or becomes the bread winner (short or long term) due to an economic downturn, disability or other reasons. Sometimes, it’s the cultural expectations, insecurities and mindset some men have about headship and being in charge. In some cases, it’s the wives who use their ‘new’ status to violate, disrespect and embarrass their husbands. If the couple is on the same team as they should be then should this issue even matter?

Successful marriages thrive when both parties act as one entity.

So before you say I do, ask this question especially the #guys…"so does it really (really) matter who earns more money? If yes, why?

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5 Ways You Are Unknowingly Destroying Your Husband [Reblog]

couple“When I got married, I was amazed at the instant, overwhelming sense of responsibility I felt to love and care for my husband. Suddenly, a huge part of someone else’s well-being and happiness was largely affected by my choices and actions.

Women, we need to be careful about how we are caring for our husbands and marriages. Don’t let the small stuff ruin the things that will bring you the greatest happiness in life.

Here are just a few ways you might be unknowingly destroying your husband and killing your marriage (as a caveat, please understand that although this article is directed toward women, it applies to men as well), read the entire article here…”

http://www.familyshare.com/marriage/5-ways-you-are-unknowingly-destroying-your-husband-and-killing-your-marriage?Rachel051615 

A real Man…

Thank God it’s Friday.

Fair or not, the image/perception of a real "man" is an interesting phenomenon and a shifting target.

This illustration captures the challenges and illusions women have and men face…it’s a rough world sometimes (lol). Discover more ideas, questions and insights in my new book, "127 Questions Singles Must Ask Their Future Spouse" –

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Fearless Love

Make up your mind on #LOVE and choose to operate by #Faith and not #Fear!

One cannot love and fear (or live in fear); what fear? The fear of divorce, affairs, unfaithfulness, barrenness, sorrow etc because fear limits and handcuffs love.

Faith propels #Love.

Fearless love needs faith to work perfectly.

Why? Because…There is no fear in love [dread does not exist], but full-grown (complete, perfect) love turns fear out of doors and expels every trace of terror! For fear brings with it the thought of punishment, and [so] he who is afraid has not reached the full maturity of love [is not yet grown into love's complete perfection]. (1 John 4:18 AMP)

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7 Quotes on Love

7 Quotes on Love

  1. “Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do… but how much love we put in that action.” -Mother Teresa
  2. “A flower cannot blossom without sunshine, and man cannot live without love.” -Max Muller
  3. “We love life, not because we are used to living but because we are used to loving.” -Friedrich Nietzsche
  4. “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” -Lucille Ball
  5. “Love is a better teacher than duty.”-Albert Einstein
  6. “The best proof of love is trust.” -Joyce Brothers
  7. “Faith makes all things possible… love makes all things easy.” -Dwight L. Moody

The difference between an art and a job new book

There’s a huge difference between an art and a job!!!

"To catch a husband is an art; to hold him is a job." – Simone de Beauvoir

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New Book on Relationships : Now Available on Amazon.com

When marrying, ask yourself this question:

"Do I believe that I will be able to converse well with this person into my old age?

Everything else in marriage is transitory.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

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[Now Available] 127 Questions Every Single Should Ask

Marriage is hard work.
Probably the most challenging and at the same time the most fulfilling human institution as well.

127 Questions To Ask

For the record, the seemingly  increased failure doesn’t obscure the beauty and grand design of marriage rather it challenges us to question all assumptions, prepare adequately and work harder.

This new book is an ideal resource for those considering this noble institution, designed as a quick read, a ‘go-to’ browse-on-the-go resource on questions for singles, engaged and newly married couples.

The questions in the book cover critical components to consider before marriage such as the past, sex, communication, culture and money matters to mention a few.

Through personal experience and research on marital bliss, the author, Flo Falayi highlights the questions to ask during courtship and well into marriage. These questions help eliminate assumptions, address potential compatibility issues, reduce marital tensions, disappointments and eradicate regrets.

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Thank you & God bless.

7 Quotes on Change

7 Quotes on Change

 

  1. “Change is hardest at the beginning, messiest in the middle and best at the end.” -Robin S. Sharma
  2. “Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.” -George Bernard Shaw
  3. “I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.” -Mother Theresa
  4. “Change is the end result of all true learning.” -Leo Buscaglia
  5. “To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.” -Winston Churchill
  6. “Life belongs to the living, and he who lives must be prepared for changes” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
  7. “If you want to change the world, pick up your pen and write.” -Martin Luther