GOD TV’s Wendy Alec says husband Rory has left her for another woman…

Such a sad story…
I am of the opinion that "exits" (regardless of how challenging or tough) they might be…can and should be handled decently and properly. Simply absconding is wrong, callous and irresponsible to family, friends, children etc.

Additionally, if someone says a partner in another relationship especially marriage is theirs when such individuals are still married to someone else is wrong.

Earlier today, GOD TV’s Wendy Alec says husband Rory has left her for another woman, no longer wishes to be part of ministry…"

Here’s the story of GOD TV’s founders’ marital collapse, this isn’t the end of it though…please keep them in your prayers.

"GOD TV co-founder Wendy Alec has made an emotional live broadcast today in which she disclosed that her husband and ministry partner of over 20 years, Rory Alec, has left her for another woman.

Her comments on Oct. 8 were made after the TV channel confirmed last week that Rory would be stepping aside as chairman and chief executive with immediate effect following an undisclosed "moral failure".

Published by Cath Martin on ChristianityToday.com

Read the entire story here: http://www.christiantoday.com/article/wendy.alec.says.husband.rory.has.left.her.for.another.woman.and.no.longer.wishes.to.be.part.of.god.tv.the.devil.got.in.very.very.easily.she.says/41454.htm

3 Ways to Die, but you don’t have to #Die.

These are three ways to die. All by doing something daily.

#1: Puff a cigarette daily, you will die 10 years earlier.
#2: Drink alcohol daily, you will die 30 years earlier.
The third is my main focus – Love someone who doesn’t love you back; you die daily.

Moral of the story-
Don’t die daily- make sure you love the person that he or loves you back.

Image Source (unknown but Acknowledged).
Research’s realibility unknown.

There are no perfect days

There are no perfect days, perfect people or perfect situations.

There are good days and then there are bad days. Or if you prefer, there will be such days. So don’t think you are alone, life in its diverse format happens to all of us.

However, what typically happens is that we over estimate what we don’t have underestimate what we have but if only we "consistently" reverse that scenario…

So today, you might be alone and frustrated…it’s been too long you say. Actually, you might even regret all the "stance and decisions" you made in your earlier days. Don’t look back, It is not in vain.

Or you might be with someone and they don’t get it or you. Or perhaps worse they do but only intermittently…remember, it is well. It will be Well.

This story of a dead son and a mother’s response is a great encouragement to me and hope to you as well. Feel free to share with others, comment or ask questions.

It is Well!

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http://eepurl.com/4QFsH

“Love” yourself

One of our favorite quotes on #Love. Everyone must learn and master the ability to love, especially themselves first.

Talking here about a healthy and affirming love that’s firmly rooted in one’s spirit.

"Women who love themselves are threatening; but men who love real women, more so." – Naomi Wolf

Love After Love #Poem #MovingOn

There is hope after all…beautiful poem.

Love After Love

The time will come when, with elation
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror
and each will smile at the other’s welcome, and say, sit here. Eat.

You will love again the stranger who was your self. Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart to itself, to the stranger who has loved you all your life, whom you ignored for another, who knows you by heart.

Take down the love letters from the bookshelf, the photographs, the desperate notes, peel your own image from the mirror. Sit. Feast on your life.

– Derek Walcott

Blind Spots could be lethal

News flash! What you don’t know could destroy you especially "the objects (people, relationships, attitudes, mindset etc)" in your blind spot.

This post on #LinkedIn, titled "Your #Blind Spot could be Lethal…Don’t Ignore it" is a reminder of how the things we do not see could be dangerous. Definitely, a good read…feel free to comment and share.

"http://www.linkedin.com/pulse/article/20140918173022-2553947-your-blind-spot-could-be-lethal

#LOVE Quotes

"Too many people overvalue what they don’t have and undervalue what they have." – Malcolm Forbes

"The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference." – Elie Wiesel

"Love is moral even without legal marriage, but marriage is immoral without love." – Ellen Key

"The fact is that love is of two kinds, one which commands, and one which obeys. The two are quite distinct, and the passion to which the one gives rise is not the passion of the other." – Honore de Balzac

"My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we’ll change the world." – Jack Layton

"Love is an endless mystery, for it has nothing else to explain it." – Rabindranath Tagore

"We really have to understand the person we want to love. If our love is only a will to possess, it is not love. If we only think of ourselves, if
we know only our own needs and ignore the needs of the other person, we cannot love." – Nhat Hanh

"To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful." – Bess Myerson

"Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up." – James A. Baldwin

"Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible – it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could." – Barbara de Angelis

"The best proof of love is trust." – Joyce Brothers

"Love is like war: easy to begin but very hard to stop." – H. L. Mencken

"The first duty of love is to listen." – Paul Tillich

Trust is an Act of Faith

#Trust is an act of Faith.
Every #Relationship is dependent on #Trust.
However, the issue isn’t necessarily a lack of faith but rather in "Whom" we trust.

We trust our significant others to be faithful.
We believe and adhere to marital vows.
We trust our parents, care givers.
We follow counsellors’ recommendations.
We work hard, confident we will be compensated on payday.
We listen to our colleagues, bosses, influencers even devouring notes, books from professors and business experts without worry.
We submit to the counsel of physicians, experts without reservations.

Yet, I find that many of us struggle when God speaks to us through the Word such that we buckle and doubt…this very post is for you…read the entire post on
http://flofalayi.org/2014/09/19/trust-is-an-act-of-faith/

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