Issues

10 Powerful Reminders for Lovers – Fola F’ayo (Inspirational)

Indeed there would be times in our relationships especially marriages when we ask ourselves- what exactly was the reason or purpose for this?

Situations that question why you even went far enough to say "I Do". I believe God must have been touched by my musings on this, because I was led to a popular scripture in Ecclesiastes…

"Two can accomplish more than twice as much as one, for the results can be much better, If one falls, the other pulls him up; but if a man falls when he is alone, he’s in trouble. Also on a cold night, two under the same blanket gain warmth from each other, but how can one be warm alone?
And one standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer;
Three is even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken
(Ecc 6 v 9-12 TLB)

Recall Gen 2v18… "And the Lord said..’It isn’t good for man to be alone; I will make a companion for him, a helper suited to his needs."

Yes, scripture is our life manual, and definitely the best source for solutions on any issue and answers to questions we have. There are many other references to marriage aside these, but for now I would stay on these.

So here’s my encouragement, when those thoughts come, remember…

1. Companionship is good and God had this in mind. You have a friend to talk to, spend time with, someone dear to share life with and the blessings that come with it.

2. Man, she is your helper, suited to meet your needs. Equipped to, if you’ll allow her.

3. Woman, you are his helper. With you, he is even better off.

4. Together, you accomplish more. Your results on things done jointly are way better.

5. Somehow, most times, you are not both down at the same time. So that the one up can support the one down to stand again. Many times you don’t see things the same way, so that you can both share different perspectives on an issue for a more balanced position. (When this happens with us, my hubby and I call each other check and balance)

6. A cold night, cozy under the blanket…nothing like a great love making to the one you’re committed to and who is committed to you. You have the right to legit romance and passion, no rush, no guilt, no shame.

7. Back to back, that’s your warfare position…you’ve got his / hers, he’s/she’s got yours.

8. The ultimate, ultimate…when the one who established it is
involved, as foundation, as wall around, as light by day and fire by night….it’s guaranteed, destiny would be fulfilled, your promised land would be reached and possessed.

To conclude on this, just today I read some articles that further inspired me, so try to…

9. Remember those special things about him/ her that you fell in love with; that made your eyes so single (and focused back then) and your body full of light. That’s why it is him/her not another. Tell him/ her about these things.

10. When purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable. So you don’t fall into the error of abuse, thankfully re-commit to God. He has a way of restoring the specific sense of purpose of our marriages and the flame so many cares have started to almost blow out.

At His Feet,
Fola”Fayo

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Bukola (FolaFayo) likes to be described as ‘A Lady after God’s own heart’, as she deeply treasures her walk with God. She is happily married and blessed with lovely children.

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