‘Ring It’ Workshop 2012

Marriage rates among young adults have been dropping for decades.
People are expected to be dexterous in relationship and marriages without any structured training or required study.
People assume that they will become skilled and savvy in relationship without deliberate action(s).

According to the Census Bureau, for the first time the proportion of people between the ages of 25 and 34 who have never been married exceeded those who were married in 2009 —46.3% versus 44.9% – An analysis by Mark Mather, a demographer at the Population Reference Bureau, a non-profit research organization in Washington.

Facts about the ‘Ring It’ Workshop.

  1. ‘Ring It’ is a LADIES only seminar, specifically SINGLE LADIES.
  2. ‘Ring It’ is an online workshop with off-line assignments, exercises and activities.Everyone (North America, Europe, Africa, Australia, Asia can participate as long as you have an Internet connection.
  3. One of the biggest advantages of this online seminar is the associated privacy.
  4. Finally Yes, you can invite and share with your friends, nieces, sisters and colleagues that you know or think will benefit from this workshop.

Next Steps:
Insanity has been defined as ‘doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. It’s time to be act, enroll now for this dynamic workshop.

This is indeed a ‘Ladies first’. So Ladies, go ahead and sign up here for the ‘Ring It’ Workshop – http://eepurl.com/ipP2g

The Difference

Is this possible we might have found  the missing relationship misnomer ?
Is it possible the men and women are looking at each other incorrectly ?
Is it possible that we’ve got our peculiarities and differences tangled up ? Image

You don’t say!

Or is it possible men are just so confused by what they think women want they themselves have it twisted ? Well, regardless of how far the pendulum has swung, let’s make it right.
Now, read this excerpt I found in my draft box this morning, SLOWLY.

“A woman would be much better off if she could distinguish the difference between a man that flatters her and a man that compliments her. A man that spends money on her and a man who invests in her. A man that views her as property and a man that views her properly. A man that lusts after her and a man that loves her. A man that believes he is God‘s gift to women and a man that REMEMBERS a woman was God’s gift to man.” – Anon

So what do you think ?


A ‘PLS’ Swag

One of the first visible enemies of Relationships in 2012 from my observations and interactions is Fear. Everyone is afraid…Fear Not! Fear steals, kills and destroys everything in it’s path. If given residency albeit temporary, it assumes citizenship. Fear devours Dreams, Hopes, Expectations, Joy and much more. Fear must be addressed quickly, promptly and effectively.

So today, guard against fear first withIN then withOUT. How ?
Recall what you’ve been given and use it judiciously.

You forgot ? Ok, let me remind you again… from 2Tim 1:7

  • You have POWER (the courage and competence to act and get things done)
  • You have LOVE (the relational ingredient that can not be toppled)
  • You have a SOUND MIND (the insight, perspective, wisdom – to be, do and much more)

So believe it and embrace who and what you are and override that ‘alien’ called fear.

Walk with a PLS swag!

Hope Alive

Don’t Lose Hope…but honestly sound the alarm; there is work to do.

Trends continue to show an increasing dearth of information with regards Relationships, daily we are overwhelmed with relationship updates with little support and assistance on what and how to enjoy successful relationships. So it’s no surprise then that there’s increased unsuccessful and unfulfilled relationships alll around us today, unfortunately the church is not spared.

Singles live in a fish bowl of sorts you know, they are expected to live right but not taught right. To understand this phenomenon further, peel back the layers and discover the depth of the decay. The shockingly complicated web of ignorance, pride, shame, pain, unrelenting and sometimes unrealistic parental expectations, peer pressures, societal and community dictates laced with the complexities of living in a progressive culture, it is no surprise then why many give up.

Dear friends, I have good news, wait up this recipe must not end this way. This disaster in my humble opinion is really an opportunity for GOOD, yep as in God’s master plan. This is an opportunity we must embrace to learn, be taught and discover the truth about relationships. This premise assumes nothing. We must ask questions and in asking, find answers that last.

Do we really understand what it means to be Single? Do we know what it means to be single ? Are you single and whole ? Are you full of light ?

The bible says in Luke 11:34; “The light of the body is the eye: therefore when your eye is single, your whole body also is full of light; but when your eye is evil, your body also is full of darkness.” American King James Version;

Listen up, If thine eye be single, your body will be full of light. Is your body full of light ? Is your community enjoying the brightness of its light ? Or is it merely a daily struggle ?

As I observe events and relationships, here are some facts:

1.Many singles do not enjoy being single or perhaps more aptly put do not know how to enjoy being single and that unfortunately leads to negative impact in subsequent relationships; in marriage, professional and business relationships.
2.There is a lack of a comprehensive, methodical and focused approach to singles in today’s community.
3.I really believe that ‘Single and fulfilled’ is a sparsely populated state and only a few ever find this nirvana.
4.The secret to a happy relationship is not only in finding the right one but in being the right one too.

So we will turn on the light together and eliminate the darkness one ‘flashlight’ at a time. We can do it, so help us God.

Peace & ♥ pFlo

// Random Thoughts from my ‘about-to-be-published’ book on Relationships PS: Feel free to express yourself, I look forward to hearing from you.