‘7’ Insights for Your Journey.

#1: GUARD YOUR THOUGHTS: “For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.” Proverbs 23:7. In order words, YOU ARE YOUR THOUGHTS. #2: BELIEVE, HAVE FAITH: “The fundamental fact of existence is that this trust in God, this faith, is the firm foundation under everything that makes life worth living. It’s our handle on […]

New Book: “Relationships-do-Matter” Coming Soon!

Relationships happen! Sometimes, they happen naturally and in some cases spontaneously, but making them LAST takes effort, insight and wisdom. In my book, “Relationships do Matter”, the tools necessary to sustain relationships are introduced in a deliberate attempt to extend the ongoing conversations on Relationships. This is a must have, must read book because: Relationships […]

Whitney took America to Church…(Feb 18th, 2012)

America went to Church. America went to Church on Saturday, when Whitney’s mother decided to hold a burial/farewell ceremony in Church, what transpired afterwards is nothing short of remarkable. There are other numerous lessons and angles to every story especially those involving celebrities, but here is my ‘extremely subjective’ observation of the events on Saturday, […]

2012- Top 10 Quotes

The top 10 love quote countdown has ended and here are the top 10 love quotes for 2012.  Don’t forget that ‘True love is about the ultimate sacrifice, the act of giving the best.’ Top 10 Love Quotes 10:”Love is the total absence of fear. Love asks no questions. Its natural state is one of […]

My Friend.

Hello All,TGIF! To celebrate friends like you…Enjoy! One of my favorite quotes by C.S. Lewis, “Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather is one of those things that give value to survival.” I stumbled across this story and I think you will (OK you might) like it. PS: Keep […]

Is Valentine’s Day, OVER RATED ?

Romance is a challenge for many people and I think most men struggle with romance because of it’s inherent abstract nature. Well, considering most men are wired (subjective) to execute tackle tasks and activities with defined goals, it is not surprising then why we, men struggle. As I travel conducting Relationship Matters Seminars and Singles’ […]

#1 Love Quote

James Baldwin, posit that “Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.” Love then is powerful, deeper than feelings and a mystery; a divine mystery. To buttress my point, here are some of Love’s attributes: Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. […]


One of mankind’s biggest phobia is failure called Atychiphobia (from the Greek word phóbos, meaning "fear" or "morbid fear" and atyches meaning “unfortunate”). According to Wikipedia, Atychiphobia is the abnormal, unwarranted, and persistent fear of failure which leads to a constricted lifestyle, and is particularly devastating for its effects on a person’s willingness to attempt […]


True love is more than the five senses or the five methods of perception which include: hearing, sight, touch, smell, and taste. Real love is deeper, wider and longer than the depths of the human soul. Here is my #3: "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. […]