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Don’t Ask, Are You Racist ?

Don't Ask Are You RacistMany people will not self identify as RACIST but when you consider the increasing hateful and inciting sentiments that are made public via the different media outlets it simply makes one wonder why there is so much racism, ethnic based discrimination, xenophobia etc. in our society.


If only we can just appreciate that there is only one #Human Race! Anyway, I digress…

In relationships it is imperative to understand your innate tendencies  and ensure the future couple (both of you) are on the same page (wave length).

So ask #Questions but please don’t ask leading questions such as “Are you racist rather ask about each other’s perceptions (viewpoints) about the different nationalities, tribes, and ethnic groups. The dialogue that follows will be extremely revealing. Trust me!

Discover more questions in my new book, “127 Questions Singles Must Ask Their Future Spouse”.

127 Questions To AskGet yours here:

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[New Book] 127Questions, Singles Must Ask Their Future Spouse

127 Questions To Ask











My new book, #127Questions is now available for pre-order. Regardless of the statistics and growing apathy towards marriage with ‘rising’ divorce rates and dissatisfaction scores, marriage remains one of the greatest institution ordained.

  1. It’s time to double check, revise  and improve the preparation process.
  2. It’s time to enhance the conversations pre and post marriage.
  3. It’s time to address the imbalance of focus and emphasis placed on the wedding day versus the actual institution, marriage.

#127Questions highlights these critical issues by itemizing the proper questions singles contemplating and preparing for marriage should ask their future spouse.

Proper preparation does prevent poor performance and I am confident #127Questions will benefit the readers. Now available for pre-order on Amazon, get yours today & many thanks for your unending support and love.

Click here:  #127Questions


Favorite Quotes #TheWitsEnd by Flo Falayi #NewBook

“When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.” ~Franklin D. Roosevelt

“When you get to your wits end, you will find, God lives there.” ~ Anon

“In the end, everything will be okay. If it’s not okay, it’s not yet the end.” ~ Fernando Sabino, translated from Portuguese

“When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.” ~ Author Unknown

“Fall seven times, stand up eight.” – Japanese Proverb

“When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.” – Harriet Beecher Stowe

Get the book here: The Wit’s End

“The Reunion” – Free E-book By IBK Ogunsina

The story of a first love gone astray…

“Our private jet landed on a California air strip and taxied over to a private terminal. With a few minutes to spare, we disembarked quickly and walked to the waiting limousine. The driver sped off and as I looked through the window as we approached the Hotel Pennsylvania, I could see that the signs were boldly written in red, the neon lights were colourful and bright, even at 7 pm in the evening.”

Download the free e-book for the rest of the story and hope it blesses everyone.

A special appreciation to the author for sharing this gift with the RDM Community.

God bless & please remember, Relationships Do Matter.


The Reunion.pdf


“Relationships Do Matter” – Now Available.

Culled from the preface of the new book, “Relationships Do Matter”

“…Long lasting relationships are created and sustained by wisdom, knowledge and understanding. I hope that this book, Relationships Do Matter, empowers all on their relationship journey. So here is to creating, fixing, repairing and restoring shaky foundations. We need honest conversations, prayerful interventions and adequate mentoring.

Relationships Do Matter, is the prescription to remedying this epidemic. It is a deliberate attempt to bridge the gaps, restoring foundations because if the foundation is destroyed, there is absolutely nothing a good person can do. Let’s keep talking…”

Released… today in honor of my ‘crazy’ best friend, my wife my relationship that really does matter.

Special Coupon: Use this special coupon (PX37L) for a 22% discount on all purchases.

Available ebook reading formats include:

Online Reading (HTML, good for sampling in web browser)
Kindle (.mobi for Kindle devices and Kindle apps)
Epub (Apple iPad/iBooks, Nook, Sony Reader, Kobo, and most e-reading apps including Stanza, Aldiko, Adobe Digital Editions, others)
PDF (good for reading on PC, or for home printing)
RTF (readable on most word processors)
LRF (Use only for older model Sony Readers that don’t support .epub)
Palm Doc (PDB) (for Palm reading devices)
Plain Text (flexible, but lacks much formatting/viewable as web page)

Remember Relationships Do Matter!