The love of money is indeed the root of all evil. Sadly, I have seen how some marriages have come apart as soon as the #wife starts earning more money or becomes the bread winner (short or long term) due to an economic downturn, disability or other reasons. Sometimes, it’s the cultural expectations, insecurities and mindset some men have about headship and being in charge. In some cases, it’s the wives who use their ‘new’ status to violate, disrespect and embarrass their husbands. If the couple is on the same team as they should be then should this issue even matter?
Successful marriages thrive when both parties act as one entity.
So before you say I do, ask this question especially the #guys…"so does it really (really) matter who earns more money? If yes, why?
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“When I got married, I was amazed at the instant, overwhelming sense of responsibility I felt to love and care for my husband. Suddenly, a huge part of someone else’s well-being and happiness was largely affected by my choices and actions.
Women, we need to be careful about how we are caring for our husbands and marriages. Don’t let the small stuff ruin the things that will bring you the greatest happiness in life.
Here are just a few ways you might be unknowingly destroying your husband and killing your marriage (as a caveat, please understand that although this article is directed toward women, it applies to men as well), read the entire article here…”
Fair or not, the image/perception of a real "man" is an interesting phenomenon and a shifting target.
This illustration captures the challenges and illusions women have and men face…it’s a rough world sometimes (lol). Discover more ideas, questions and insights in my new book, "127 Questions Singles Must Ask Their Future Spouse" –
Make up your mind on #LOVE and choose to operate by #Faith and not #Fear!
One cannot love and fear (or live in fear); what fear? The fear of divorce, affairs, unfaithfulness, barrenness, sorrow etc because fear limits and handcuffs love.
Faith propels #Love.
Fearless love needs faith to work perfectly.
Why? Because…There is no fear in love [dread does not exist], but full-grown (complete, perfect) love turns fear out of doors and expels every trace of terror! For fear brings with it the thought of punishment, and [so] he who is afraid has not reached the full maturity of love [is not yet grown into love's complete perfection]. (1 John 4:18 AMP)
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