“It is absolutely OK not to have Sex” – Phin Lyman

  Abstinence sounds like an impossibility today, but I dare say you’ve got to think again because it’s possible. Here’s a teenager taking a stand to be different. Below are some excerpts from his article- “Once you have sex with someone, you’re connected to them emotionally and physically,”Phin​ wrote. “If you tear that bond the rip leaves […]

Alone in the City 3

It’s weird when who one has, isn’t who one wants. It’s also weird when who one needs isn’t who one is with. It is also weird when one knows who the right one is before he or she is even in the picture. Guess what, it really isn’t that weird after all. -Flo Here’s the […]

8 Reasons You Might Still Be Single By Lisa Firestone, Ph.D.

Clearly, some people are single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the circumstances of their lives. They may have just gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated relentlessly and just haven’t found […]


Our featured writer, Dami simply captured a recently concluded conversation she had with her friend(s). We hope it stimulates and provokes subsequent conversations. Enjoy & Remember Relationships Do Matter. A SINGLE MAN’s DILEMMA Recently, I’ve been seriously considering turning my affections to men and know how that feels. A little probing made me realize it […]

Question: The Past

A reblog – When the Past is not Past, What do you do? QUESTION: I am in a relationship with a Christian girl who wants to put God first and seek His will in our relationship. However, she has a very promiscuous and abusive past, leaving her with a permanent STD. I feel like I should […]

The Difference

Is this possible we might have found  the missing relationship misnomer ? Is it possible the men and women are looking at each other incorrectly ? Is it possible that we’ve got our peculiarities and differences tangled up ?  You don’t say! Or is it possible men are just so confused by what they think […]