Issues

How to have an affair (and ruin everything) – Kurt Bubna (Reblog)

Ok, folks if you follow these steps, your chances of success are very high and the cost as well. Actually, you will ruin everything. I read
Kurt’s beautifully written article about our society’s very common problem. The ‘natural’ after effect of a sex-driven world.

I hope this article does more than just catch your attention, I hope it makes you work hard to protect your marriage and vital relationships. I hope it knocks some sense into you and STOPS you right in your tracks.

Kurt’s article stated some staggering US only statistics (I won’t be surprised if similar trends exist in other countries and regions as well):

  • Estimates

    of American men involved in extramarital affairs at least once in their lives range from 22% to 75%;

  • Estimates for women range from 14% to 60%.
  • 74% of men and 68% of women say they would have an affair if they knew they would never be caught.

So let’s take a brief look at the anatomy of an affair and how to have one (if you want to ruin everything). If you religiously follow the above suggestions, I can guarantee you “success”; you’ll have an affair in no time. Of course, it will probably cost you your marriage, a lot of money, your peace, your true joy, lots of holidays and priceless moments with your kids, possibly your faith and quite probably the respect and admiration of your family, co-workers, and friends. Be sure to count the cost.

First, ignore all reasonable and wise boundaries with the opposite sex. Go out for coffee or better yet for lunch or dinner with a co-worker of the opposite sex under the guise of a “working meal.” Spend as much time as you can with this new “friend.”

Here’s another good one:
Guys, make sure you compliment the gal on a regular basis regarding how good she looks, smells, or smiles. Women like to be noticed and crave personal attention (especially if she’s not getting enough kudos from her husband; he’s probably a jerk).

Then here’s another one –
When the accidental physical contact happens or you have the chance for a lingering and full-body hug, take advantage of it, and make sure it’s mutual. Get those pheromones flowing!

Now, read the rest of this excellent article here and let me know your thoughts –

http://kurtbubna.com/how-to-have-an-affair-and-ruin-everything/

You don’t have to destroy everything, call, scream, seek and reach out for help. There is help available…
Email: info for more information etc.

Remember, Relationships Do Matter.
pFlo