Are you ready and available? Relationships are complex and broad brush strokes. When applied to extremely complex situations is unfair, unimaginative and rarely helpful. There is a reason why many clichés and opinions do not help many people. Conversely, often times we complicate simple things by over-thinking or over-analyzing due to ignorance or limited information. I know this much is true; it is… Read More Will Love Find You?
Marriage is hard work. Probably the most challenging and at the same time the most fulfilling human institution as well. For the record, the seemingly increased failure doesn’t obscure the beauty and grand design of marriage rather it challenges us to question all assumptions, prepare adequately and work harder. This new book is an ideal… Read More [Now Available] 127 Questions Every Single Should Ask
My new book, #127Questions is now available for pre-order. Regardless of the statistics and growing apathy towards marriage with ‘rising’ divorce rates and dissatisfaction scores, marriage remains one of the greatest institution ordained. It’s time to double check, revise and improve the preparation process. It’s time… Read More [New Book] 127Questions, Singles Must Ask Their Future Spouse
Can we be honest? Everyone’s looking for a perfect relationship yet no one is willing to work hard for it. A vibrant loving relationship is indeed challenging mentally and physically but the feedback from those who put in the hard work and pay the price is encouraging, because they all confirmed the great success that follows… Read More [New Post] How to Make Love With Your Clothes On
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Valentine’s Day is a few days away and the buildup continues…listed below are some gift ideas ranging from the simple to slightly moderate and a few moderate to hard ones. I hope the list stirs your creativity as you celebrate the one(s) you love. “A great Valentine’s Day is a function of ‘great’ planning and… Read More [New Post] 25 Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas #Tips
HOT MARRIAGE or HOT MONOGAMY sounds like an oxymoron and often we allude HOT to only a DATE, A PERSON or an AFFAIR. There is a place for a HOT MARRIAGE. I have been married for more than 15 years and honestly the novelty of a bouquet of roses, candies or perfumes as an ideal… Read More “SIZZLING HOT” MARRIAGE – A perfect valentine’s day gift for married couples.
All that glitters isn’t gold! A popular adage that captures a myopic viewpoint on life and relationship matters. I have heard many similar painful stories, seen many heart breaks. This story is a stern reminder, so please look hard before you jump. Enjoy! I met this couple a few years back. Sweet-looking things, if you… Read More “THIS FRAME DIDN’T LOOK LIKE IT EITHER.” – Sinmisola Ogúnyinka
Sometimes, you’ve got to do something you’ve never done to get something you’ve never had. A few weeks ago I challenged a single lady…to stop complaining and doing the same things she did in 2013. I was adamant that she had to do something different in 2014. Well, well…what came out of it surprised me.… Read More “Alone in the City”
The Difference (Quote) “Often the difference between a successful marriage and a mediocre one consists of leaving about three or four things a day unsaid.” ~ Harlan Miller